“I don’t know what I want to be.”
If you’ve heard this from a teenager in your life, you’re not alone. Today’s teens are overwhelmed with choices, social pressure, and career uncertainty. As a counsellor, I often see the anxiety behind these words—fear of failing, disappointing others, or choosing the "wrong" path. Career confusion isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a signal that guidance is needed.
Why Teens Feel Career Confusion
The teenage years are full of exploration, but that freedom can also feel like pressure. Teenagers today are expected to make life-altering choices at a young age—without knowing themselves fully.
- Too many options: Endless career paths can lead to decision paralysis.
- External pressure: Expectations from parents, peers, or society can be overwhelming.
- Fear of failure: Many fear wasting time on the "wrong" path.
- Lack of exposure: Teens often don't know what careers truly involve.
A Counsellor’s Perspective: What Teens Really Need
As a career counsellor, I’ve learned that teens don’t need all the answers—they need a safe space to ask the right questions. Career counselling helps teens:
- Explore who they are: Personality assessments and values exercises build self-awareness.
- Learn about the world of work: Exposure to real-world career options widens horizons.
- Develop decision-making skills: Teens learn to evaluate options thoughtfully, not fearfully.
- Gain confidence: Clarity creates calm, and calm builds confidence.
How Parents Can Support
Parents play a powerful role in reducing career anxiety. Instead of pushing answers, try:
- Encouraging open conversations about interests and dreams
- Letting teens explore through internships, job shadowing, or volunteering
- Focusing on skills and learning, not just results
- Being open to non-traditional or creative paths
Book a teen career counselling session to help your child explore their future with confidence.
